Relationship Questions you Should Ask your Partner in Crime

Here are some Questions that everyone should ask their Partner in Crime ~ The lines in blue are my answers just so you know them ~ I feel like sharing today…

1. What would you do if you won $100,000.00 in the lottery?   I would pay off my debt and take maybe $5,000.00 for some fun getaway trips and the rest would go into a savings account to assure security for my future.
2. What’s your favorite Holiday? How does your family spend it?  Christmas is my favorite Holiday because it is time I get to spoil all of my family and play rummy with my mom and sister. Watch dad walk around the table and read all of our cards and than sneak advice to mom… It is good times for me. 
3. Do you believe in God? Yes and No.  I am not 100% sure what I believe in yet.  I do believe in the “Golden Rule” treats others the way you want them to treat you back.  I think honesty, loyalty and kindness go a very long way in life.
4. What’s your dream job? Where would you most like to live? At first I always wanted to be the stay at home mom and wife but as I get older I know that I would not stay busy enough that now I want to be in the IT field where I can mess and break stuff and enjoy the people around me and sure make some decent money but I think it is better for someone to do something that they love doing no matter the annual salary than do something they hate and make a lot of money.  Ideally if I do ever have kids I would like to be able to stay at home for the first year and than go back to work I think.  You change and grow everyday that your ideal world changes and grows with you daily.
5. What was your dad’s work schedule like? My father worked from Dawn to Dusk and on weekends, holidays.  He owns his own construction company and it has taught me that anything worth while is not a piece pie you work until you get it right with not only your job but your home life as well.
6. How do you envision your life in 5 years? I envision myself with a career my BS degree in IT and financially secure and hopefully sharing my life with someone that appreciates me for who I am.
7. What do you think of spanking your children for punishment? I was not spanked enough as a child.  I think that if you use spanking properly that it is ok.  Just depends on the situation.
8. What do your parent’s like to drink? They like a lot of things, like water, wine, coke, sprite, Dr. Pepper, Smoothies, they are not drunks if that is what you are asking me ~
9. How have your parents reacted to your previous girlfriends/boyfriends? Let’s see the last guy I brought home to the family was in 2003 and mom thought he was nice enough and dad thought he was a lazy you know what.  Sister was in Saint Thomas so she did not get to meet him.
10. What was your relationship with your mother/father like? I am close with both of my parents.  No matter how much I call my dad a jerk I have respect for him and I understand him and I know that he thinks he is showing his love for us etc… My mom is my best friend but yet she is my mother she does not know ALL ~ I am a big girl I can make my own descions on how to live my life but I do respect my parents that if it is a major life change I will get their thoughts and digest it and ponder it and than go with what I want.
11. And last but not least if you are not comfortable asking these questions for fear of the answers or an argument than Dump them right now!  Just kidding but it sure should tell you something don’t you think???? Going to ask him these questions the next time I talk to him ~

Hope you enjoy these questions I got them off an online site somewhere and agreed that everyone that is considering a life time with their partner in crime should ask each other these important questions.